The Stone Skipper

Dragon Chinese New Year

2012-01-22T11:06:00.002+08:00

Enter the Dragon

Tong Tong Tong Chiang! Its that time of year again, where everyone comes back to their hometown, pay respects to elders, visit relatives, reunion lunches and dinners, give and receive Ang Pows, eat lots of cookies in clear plastic jars with red covers, eat lots of mandarin oranges, secretly light up fireworks, lion dances, reunion gambling and the list goes on....

I love this time of year because of all the above. Its a time where friends you grew up with would also come back, and its a dose of good catch ups. I heart this time of year.

I hope your celebrations will be great. No doubt we leave with expanded waistlines but we also leave with a contented, celebratory feeling. Here's wishing you all a very GONG XI FATT CHAI!!

Travel safe and BEST of luck at the tables! Happy holidays! HUAT AH!!!

Happy New Year!

2012-01-10T00:05:00.001+08:00

What a year 2011 was! It is the ninth day of the Dragon year and I'm still trying to get priorities straight. I would be happy if this year could be a mirroring effect of the previous. So far, lots of discussions and ideas. Lots of planning and strategising before the implementation. I hope for it to be a good one and I hope for it to be a good one for all of you.

Refresh

2011-11-06T16:38:00.000+08:00

So far, I've been on a long break, three months to be exact, after a busy but great year.

We were approached with a good offer to part with the B&B business and after some thought, agreed to the sale of the nearly-year-old project. In fact it seemed longer. It has been crazy.

I've enjoyed each passing day so much but felt so guilty when Amy said I'm a much happier person now I'm no longer attached to the business. Admittedly, it took a lot out of me. It was a hands on business, seven days a week and started as early as 7am. Sometimes our guests do request for an earlier breakfast due to an early check out i.e. 5am. I can imagine at times not being the best person....

The experience was priceless, shall write more in the next few posts.

A brand new chapter

2011-04-28T11:28:00.001+08:00

So the restaurant venture I had high hopes for didn't work out. In the end Jeffrey, almost-chef/partner, had an offer he simply couldn't refuse. The opportunity was too good to miss and while disappointed, I wished him well on his new journey in Singapore.

I'm a firm believer of things happening for a reason.

A week after still being gutted, I met Amy's best friend's brother, Kelvyn. Though we knew each other in a short period of time, we clicked. We were discussing various ideas and what could be done. A common thing we both loved were heritage buildings but were not sure what was the most ideal business.

A few were mentioned but didn't spark, then suddenly Kelvyn asked me what do I think about a small boutique hotel or a bed & breakfast? I responded immediately saying that's an idea I had in mind! Actually for the past couple of years...

This was August of '10. Fast forward today, a quaint two bedroom B&B located on Bangkok Lane is born. Our doors have opened since November of the same year and we've had guests trickled in from all over the globe. Its been quite surreal. Unimaginable that sometimes when a door closes, in patience, perseverance and luck, another will open

My belief of things happening for a reason, stands strongly as ever if not stronger. Its a whole new venture, wish us luck!

Back !

2010-12-29T11:06:00.000+08:00

Merry Christmas everyone ! Its been a while, much to update. Let's just say its a 180 degree change. While I'm at it, I'd like to wish you a very Happy New Year 2011 ! May the new year bring the changes, achievements and successes. Be safe and happy holidays !!

Excited

2010-02-05T10:40:00.003+08:00

I recently got to know a talented chef a year younger than I am, whom was previously plying his trade at the Four Seasons Singapore. I was recommended by a friend of his creations and was immediately impressed. He's a huge Thai food fan too, so we spoke about developing something together.

Now, I really don't fancy fusion food because personally it lacks identity. However, while keeping the sauces or ingredients original and adding a twist, can very well be an alluring conception. The challenge would be convincing and educating diners of this new trend.

So an example would be, say, stir-fried beef with basil leaves, on a side of fragrant Thai rice accompanied with a poached egg. There, that's fusing a very original Thai staple meal. Usually this dish comes with a sunny side up egg, but a little tweaking can change the outlook of a simple yet savory meal.

There's more to come while we both sit down and bounce ideas off one another. Unka, if you're reading this, I'd like to hear your ideas (;

Looking forward to the end of CNY to kick start this project. GLEE~

Jeramy

2010-02-04T01:18:00.001+08:00

Flogger

2010-01-27T17:13:00.006+08:00

These days, there are floggers everywhere. I think anyone can do it because everyone has a point and shoot, broadband, and of course, filling their stomachs. My gripe however, is being impartial or a suitable judge.

This post isn't about anyone writing anything bad about my restaurant, but its about restaurants and eateries I tried out myself after reading favorable reviews. Though the saying 'One man's meat is another man's poison' rings true in relation to said topic but truthfully how can there be such a drastic difference of taste amongst us, Malaysians?

I visited each of these establishments with the minutest of expectations because we all know high expectations yield great disappointments. So recently I visited this ghetto-like Thai eatery (I'm not comparing in any way to my own but in a way proper Thai food should be) located along a jetty. I'm sure most of you know which I'm talking about.

I ordered what a famous flogger wrote as "the mouthwatering taste is just fabulous" for the clear soup Tom Yum Seafood. I had the exact same soup and after one sip I was asking myself how does one define Thailand's most famous soup as fabulous when lime isn't one of the main ingredient included? Now said person can make or break an establishment with their review, but how does one write so favorably of a dish when instead of lime, was vinegar? How could vinegar be a substitute for lime in Tom Yum?

(That is blasphemy in Thai culinary cooking!)

Other dishes didn't measure up to the hype it received, and I felt it was a real miss of said flogger with the glowing review. I will continue trying out places said flogger has patronized and compare taste buds. Makes me feel we need more Simon Cowell-type floggers and less of the Paula Abdul ones.

Was it any wonder why she got the chop?

Idiota

2010-01-15T15:34:00.003+08:00

While last night was slow, the icing on a rather disappointing night was summed up with a rant from a very bald and gay Italian.

I have no qualms of one's sexuality, in fact many of my regulars are of the pink currency, but this was quite a different scenario completely.

So three of them came, Bald Italian, British and a local. They ordered their starters and wanted them out before the mains were served. No problem. So out came their starters and I proceeded to push out their mains. Their order was two mains(Pineapple Fried Rice & Pad Thai Prawns) to be shared. Fine, no problem.

So the first, Pad Thai came flying out. And while the chef was preparing their second main, the first was sent back to be reheated. It was still hot! About plus minus seven minutes, their second was done and both brought out to be served. Bald Italian was fuming. British said 'too late, take it back'. Bald Italian stood up and confronted me, saying 'I asked you to bring both mains out at the same time.'

'This is unacceptable, you should have the facilities to keep the food warm. I used to be a chef' Bald Italian retorted.

And he wouldn't allow me to explain. Every time I tried he kept cutting me off. Then he went on about how the food at my parent's restaurant next door is great but doesn't come out in the order he wanted it to. I held myself back. 'This isn't fine western dining, its Thai'. 'A chef? Where? At KFC? Were a few things I had at the back of my tongue.

Amy said I handled it well. She told me she would have manhandled Bald Italian and threw him out on his culo. I mean I was pissed. The night was already slow, coupled with an unreasonable person's demand without at least understanding the cultures of one's cuisine. And if you really were a chef, you'd know how to differentiate.

Still I kept my cool even with his last statement, 'Thank you for ruining my evening' before storming out. I would have lost the plot if he wasn't gonna stop. His partner, the petite local chap who paid the bill, told us this is how Bald Italian is, felt bad and was apologetic.

Well ladies and gentlemen, this is the service industry for you. Sometimes, ya just have to take it with a pinch of salt.....*inhales deeply*

I almost ran out to say 'There's a McDonald's down the road'

Twenty10

2010-01-11T15:58:00.003+08:00

First up, I'd like to wish everyone a belated happy 2010. May each and everyone of you be blessed with great health, ascending career paths and a blissful love life.

I have earmarked a few things to achieve this year, though one of them already kicked off in December - to be healthier(which we will get to a little later). One of my resolutions is to be more active on my blog. I'm grateful for readers who've dropped mails expressing their pleasure in reading what I have to say on this off and on again blog. Thank you. I will try my utmost to write MORE often. So bear with me.

Looking back, I can say with justice that 2009 had been kind to me. Toward the end of '08, it was said the Goat would be having a difficult year in '09, but I begged to differ.

Here's why....

Left my company to pursue a life of a restaurateur, while its been a 180 degree change, its been exciting and there are no regrets.
I met Amy. The past ten months have been nothing but a blissful journey with her. My pillar of strength, who's supported me in my quest to be a success in my new found trade, and of course, to be a better person in life.
The retail project, my last assignment I oversaw before leaving my company, was a success and took the company out of our slump.
Being closer to family after being away a total of a decade. Took getting used to, but there has been more pros than cons.

Back in June of last year, I bought a book, 'Skinny Bastard'. Its basically a book about being a Vegan and talks about how unhygienic the slaughter houses are, how the human body isn't functioned to digest meat, that the animals we consume are fed with countless amounts of antibiotics and are sprayed with pesticides and insecticides.

How when alarmed, the animal releases stress related chemicals into their bloodstream before slaughter which compromises the quality etc.

Reading up on all that has made me aware how cancer is so common. How the food you and I are ingesting, are the causes of various types of cancer and heart diseases. So around late last year, I went on a 5 day vegetarian diet till today.

I allowed myself eggs, with fragrant brown rice and raw or sometimes lightly cooked vegetables. I get to eat what I want on my off day plus one day on the weekends with Amy. I feel better especially in terms of energy levels and have dropped 4kgs.

I'm working on some changes with regards to the restaurant. Stay tuned for what's in store. Meantime, wishing you the very best for twenty-ten. May this be a better year for you!

Over & out!

Crack

2009-12-11T17:00:00.003+08:00

My nearly two month old Polo...

Goooday

2009-11-12T01:18:00.003+08:00

Today was a good day. Introduced the set menu for lunch and was well received. Dinner was a little busy with two large tables. I'm so knackered right now but simultaneously feeling positive. Today's the first day, will see how it goes from here. Just included a few dishes to the line up.

Time to dock at the power supply bay. Tomorrow's another day, and I'm looking forward to it.

Goodbye

2009-10-26T02:22:00.003+08:00

For the past week, I've been saddled with sadness and disbelief a family friend had passed away in a diving incident off Pulau Aur, Johor.

For reasons yet unknown, he encountered some difficulty with his rebreather underwater and passed out. The crew administered CPR while speeding him to the nearest hospital which was quite some distance. Sadly, he never regained consciousness.

My heart goes out to his family, especially Tristan, who is yet to be born and will never know how good a man his father was. Take care Marcus. Godspeed and may you rest in peace...

http://wildsingaporenews.blogspot.com/2009/10/diving-tragedy-diver-was-honing-his.html

Back

2009-10-09T16:06:00.002+08:00

Ahhh! Finally some time in cyberspace. Have been so busy the past month with the opening of my new restaurant, 'Chiim'.

I'm excited its happened after what seems like forever. Its still a work in progress as I plan to add things here and there as the business grows. Still can't really believe I'm a restaurateur now. One thing I can really believe are the hours involved. By the time I get done, I'm so knackered my social life is spiraling downwards.

I love the challenge. I've always wanted to own a restaurant(well, a chain of them!)and now this is the beginning of my passion. I'm hoping it will drive me and keep me motivated for as long as I'm still breathing.

'Food is the only thing that truly nourishes'

So why not let it be a passionate occupation at the same time?

Behold

2009-06-15T16:13:00.000+08:00

Coming soon....Tickling your palates in August.

Culinary or Hospitality? Thai or European?

2009-03-20T18:28:00.004+08:00

During my hiatus from the professional world, I've been contemplating going back to school. Best time to go back is during a recession. Yes, that's what we're knee deep in now.

Back to the topic. Its a toss up between culinary and hospitality. Though cooking has the edge, they're both definitely the core in the F & B business. Exploring options at the moment, may go back to Bangkok for it since there's a number of great schools catering to both.

Though mum and dad prefer their youngest to go for Thai, I'm leaning more towards European. Have never cooked anything Thai. Well other than emptying the ready made green curry ingredients into a cooking pan, stir and wait to simmer. Still some time left, though before you know it, its already the end of March.

Ok, time to weigh options!

CNY '09

2009-01-28T11:18:00.003+08:00

* GONG XI FA CHAI *

Trip

2009-01-16T16:14:00.005+08:00

So I was in Shenzhen recently for an unscheduled business trip.
For some time now, I've been persuaded by my brother and father to come aboard their company, in which their efforts have been fruitless.

About a week before new years, where plans were already made to meet up and celebrate with friends, dad calls to have a father-son talk. He started with the usual banter - my life and work in general. Then after a long pause and out of the blue he asked if I remembered how messy the family business became because of the internal conflicts. Bewildered, I nodded and answered at the same time.

"Well I want both you and Koko to be a successful team together." o.0 Uh?
"You can learn from his experience and complement him at the same time. I know you've built up something over there, but its my wish to see the both of you work closely, hand in hand. So do daddy a favor and go to China with him, at least have a break and consider."

I then knew where he was going with this.

Dad has always instilled in the both of us to support each other no matter what. The 'blood is thicker than water' has been an embedded phrase in our lives. I love my brother unconditionally and he likewise, but our working styles are very different and funny as it may sound, I don't want to end up jeopardising what we have, like dad and his brothers. Dad always regretted the family dispute, even if he was the victim. However, he was gentleman enough to let bygones be bygones and paid visits to them during the lunar new year as a show of respect.

Initially, I never understood his unforgiving gesture because he was forced out during the conflicts, and yet we received the best of education and quality of life as a whole. As a maturing adult I began to see he was the bigger man and I was proud of my father. The least I could do was give it a chance while taking it as a holiday.

Sorted out travel details and off to Shenzhen I went. In truth I was excited and happy. Part of me always wanted to visit the motherland and seeing dad so happy I'm giving this a chance. Its not often I see him happy and when there's the stolen laugh, smile or even a grin, its quite a Kodak moment.

While in Shenzhen, because my Mandarin's so rusty, I had to rojak-ed it up with Taiwanese Mandarin, local Mandarin(Pu Tong Hua) and some Cantonese as a means of communication. Hey its been almost twenty years, give me a break!

Though I didn't get to experience the sights and sounds as much, I'm glad to have made the trip. I learned about the Chinese culture, whereby at a business lunch, guests are required to 'feast'. The food though greasy, were delectable, great Szechuan cooking. Not surprising in just a space of nearly a week I piled on almost 3kg's... -_-"

And what's with all the honking???

2009

2009-01-02T19:09:00.001+08:00

May the new year bring each and everyone of you the very best of WEALTH - though it seems recession will be in full swing this year; HEALTH - though it seems the global crisis will affect one's physical and mental well being, leading to stress disorders; and last but not least, LOVE - Ahh! With one's bank balance taking a hit, coupled with spiking stress levels....Er..........

HAPPY NEW YEAR to you from cold cold Shenzhen ( :

Dedication

2008-11-11T16:19:00.004+08:00

Dear Pae,

Your departure shook and saddened me where no words could possibly describe.

In that instant, it brought back times when we hung out at our usual spot in between or after classes. Your exceptional cheekiness brought countless pangs of laughter to our lives and made a boring day, a much better one.

How is it that you went for a study session and came back with a girl's uniform hanging at the back of your car is beyond us. That I guess, is what makes you, you.

I regret not catching up with you after university, and took it for granted we will cross paths once again. Please forgive me...

I hope you're in a better place now and may your soul rest in peace. All of us, family, friends and loved ones pray you'll be watching over us. Take care, Pae.

p.s. Don't spend all day chasing skirts up there ( ;

10 reasons NOT to boycott Beijing

2008-04-19T18:51:00.002+08:00

1. If countries like the USA don't go then the Chinese will win more medals and, as everyone knows, its the winning, not the taking part that counts.

2. Thailand would miss out on medals in boxing and weightlifting.

3. If we boycott this Olympics we'll have to boycott London 2012 due to Britain's role in the invasion of Iraq.

4. If you boycott the Olympics then the logical conclusion is that you should stop trading with China and NOBODY is going to do that.

5. If China has to give up Tibet, the USA should get out of Hawaii and New Mexico.

6. No-one should be denied the chance to compete for a medal in archery after four years of strenuous physical training.

7. Poor, unfortunate sponsors like Coca-Cola and McDonald's would suffer from bad publicity.

8. The Chinese people aren't responsible for the regime and they're looking forward to being good hosts.

9. The opening ceremony is bound to be really exciting.

10. A boycott won't make any difference anyway.

Misconception

2008-03-25T16:32:00.002+08:00

Here's something you might not know..

The nutritional value of shark fin is no different from that of chicken stock. Not only is it tasteless but has no special medicinal or health purposes.

Killing FOUR sharks would yield a mere one kg of fins.

You CAN make a difference. Say NO to fin soup.

Poy

2008-03-24T14:05:00.006+08:00

Would you just look at that...sizzling hot isn't she?

You can say that again.

Female species in The Land of Smiles are renowned for their beauty.

Behold...

Treechada 'Poy' Malayaporn, Miss Tiffany Universe and Miss International Queen 2004.

You read correctly - Miss Tiffany Universe

Worrying times ahead indeed for Thailand's straight population.

IDIOT

2008-03-13T14:09:00.007+08:00

Thank f*ck Zainuddin Maidin lost.

One can only wonder how an imbecile such as himself could be made Information Minister. We were the laughing stock of the world after his disgraceful interview with Al Jazeera a while back. His tirade was less than comprehensible and I couldn't help but be sickly ashamed as a Malaysian.

Even a leading opposition branded him 'Minister of Misinformation'.

I am relieved he and other ministers who've been redundant in their cabinet posts are finally out of the political picture. Its about bloody time and I'm thankful to be part of this historical change.

There will be conflicts - It has already begun between the prime minister and our new Penang chief minister. For the first time, Malaysia's political scene looks set to be an interesting and perhaps turbulent ride for the next five years?

Dirty

2008-02-29T18:07:00.004+08:00

I have rarely commented on politics but upon hearing the transfer of Thailand's Police Commissioner Seripisut Temiyavej, I couldn't help but cry foul.

This of course has to do with the dirty world of politics.

He was promoted to the position of Commissioner during the previous interim government in 2007. His integrity, honesty and no-nonsense approach were primary reasons to the powerful appointment. Never one to be afraid of cracking down on the influential shady individuals namely Por Pratunam, reputed mob boss of a large gambling den in the Pratunam area.

He led the sting with the collusion of fellow senior officers. A team of commandos scaled the high walls and stormed the compound to arrest patrons, henchmen, and those involved in the illegal operation.

It was one of the most daring moves by a high ranking police officer which won over plaudits, and at the same time scrutinised upon by colleagues, deemed to be on the payroll of the godfather himself.

Having an excellent track record, he was handpicked by post coup Prime Minister Surayud Chulanont to replace incumbent Kowit Wattana, who was accused of neglecting his duties in the 2006 Bangkok New Year's Eve bombing.

With the return of the old power clique, it is little wonder of his removal from the force's apex. From his appointment till present, Seripisut has not put a foot wrong and the injustice of his transfer has the word 'dirty' written all over it.

The former Police Commissioner has vowed to take his case to court on charges of wrongful dismissal if there is a lack of transparency on his controversial transfer to an inactive post.

The power play of scum politics.

The Beginning

2008-02-29T10:33:00.004+08:00

So at the start of 2008, what's been happening? First and foremost, I've given up smokes and doing well maintaining my stance. Even though I'm surrounded by smokers I haven't flinched or starved crazed to have a puff. All I need to beware is the alternative to quitting, and that substitute is of course munching. The last casual and unfruitful attempt made me gain a significant amount of weight. To replace the habit of lighting up, I turned to mini Wrighley's chewing gum. I bought an entire box load, has to be at least a hundred and fifty odd chewies in there and in a disaster move I managed to polish off the entire quantity in about two and a half weeks.

So much for finding a proper substitute -_-

That was years ago and now with a lot more control of my actions, which we all would like to call maturity, I've been able to suppress the desire to put nicotine into my bloodstream. My substitution when I go out to pubs or clubs, is still gum. Two sticks at most. My disassociation with ciggies are working in my favor though. As of December, the government has banned lighting up in restaurants, pubs, bars, clubs and so on. You can puff outside the vicinity only. So all the better for yours truly.

The next change is at the office. After a two month hiatus(which I shall elaborate later), I came back to the company helming a new division - Branding & Communications. During my absence, there had been a busy period at work and the unexpected surge in business. One of our biggest worldwide distributors, Jim Stott, a shoot and capable man with twenty years experience was roped in to take on my role. So now the structural changes are his distribution has been shifted to another solid individual with impressive credentials in Canada. Jim has been working closely with the new distributors about marketing and strategic planning in Canada while taking on the role of VP for Business Development at our company.

My main concerns now are the retailing of our very own brand for the moment, targeting the local market before going into export. Will be dealing a lot with designers about the outlook and packaging of the product and attending a bevy of branding seminars and workshops. Looking very forward to learning new ideas to succeed in this important industry, or should I say, staying alive.

Now, about my two month sabbatical, I was back in Malaysia for a personal project. I'm finally happy to be made a partner in a Thai restaurant with both my parents. Having worked in their restaurant before, the passion of having a say in an F&B business has always been an interest of mine. Its been a relative success since its opening in January and we're struggling to provide more seating capacity for happy customers. In order to keep abreast of its development, I'll be visiting more often than before. It all works out since I can see family much more than I ever could, especially my little darling niece, Olivea.

Its almost the third month of the year, and things are looking quite positive. Another nine more months to go and I can tell you its going to be a challenging one, which I look forward to overcoming obstacles headed my way. One needs to do whatever they can, as time seems too short these days. I sincerely hope you all will have a productive and successful 2008, aided by a robust health to keep the fuel burning.

Over & out!

Smug

2008-02-18T14:03:00.002+08:00

I don't think Edison Chen will be getting any endorsements from electronic brands. Ever.

2008-02-08T00:15:00.000+08:00

GONG XI FATT CHAI

Mourning

2008-01-30T22:20:00.000+08:00

It hasn't been the best of starts to 2008.

On the sixth day of the new year, the girlfriend of a mate was involved in a hit and run and succumbed to her injuries at the hospital. Its been absolutely horrid for him and been keeping to himself ever since. The poor fella was right beside her when it happened but came away without a scratch.

I'm still so gutted thinking back. I had arrived at the scene just after the incident and saw a pool of blood on the road. They were already on the way to the hospital by then. At the casualty ward, I spoke to an on duty nurse about her condition and was told to be critical. Basically she had flat lined on the way to the ER and had to be resuscitated upon arrival. It didn't sound good right from the start and were told by the doctor to pray, very hard for her.

Within a few hours that morning, she passed away without regaining consciousness.

I had just only met her that fateful night while our friends met up. He introduced me to her and I thought what a beautiful girl with an attractive personality. She was young, happy and in love. So was my mate. Alas, life is sometimes cruel and unfair. God has written the course of our fate the minute we were created. Tragically for him, she was called too early.

At her eulogy, her relative spoke and touchingly included, "...during the last moments of her life, she was able to spend it with someone she loved...."

To my mate, there are no words I could possibly say to make you feel any better since I am not going through that colossal lost you are enduring. I sincerely hope you will find the strength and solace, with the help of time, be able to experience happiness again.

When I saw her that night with you, I have never seen a more radiant human being. Keep her legacy alive and cherish the priceless, happy memories.. she would have wanted that.

2007-12-23T12:56:00.000+08:00

Looking ahead to 2008

Random

2007-10-16T06:07:00.000+08:00

Been a while since I last updated, been busy with work and travel mostly. Am seriously thinking of changing my profession since having an influx of friends or guests popping to Bangkok for a visit for the last three months or so. I think I'll do quite well as a tour guide...

Its been raining cats and dogs recently, widespread thundershowers throughout the week with isolated heavy falls. I'd prefer it when I'm already back at the apartment...and dry. Then again, I love the rain especially during the night. I always imagine it will 'clean' the city of all the dust and dirt; lower the temperature; offer some breeze; reminisce the good times.. It does wonders filtering out the noise pollution from the traffic, sound of the rain hitting tar, concrete, rooftops and so on completely dwarfing the audio episodes on the road.

Since mumsy left, my Sundays have become very quiet. No more lunches or get togethers, but she's happy back home with everyone, especially little cutie, Olivea. She called to tell tale how Oli ran towards her and hugged her by the legs upon seeing mumsy stepping through the door.

Ahhh that's bliss right there for you.

I miss everyone back home, and this is the longest time I've not gone back in the past ten years. That's why I can't wait to jump on the opportunity for a long break in December. There's no deny seeing friends and family again recharges the soul and makes you appreciate every available minute in their lives.

*Reminisces*.....

"Oiiiiiii!! Back to work!!!"

*POOOOOOF*

"Do you know..."

2007-09-28T20:14:00.000+08:00

A couple of weeks ago, I accompanied Jon to Conrad for some drinks with his acquaintance, who was already there waiting. On the way, Jon briefed me a little about her, whom I'll call F, who happens to be a relative of a powerful godfather/politician.

Jon did tell me a few days before, he was at a club when she called for him to escort her from the entrance down to the venue. As Jon appeared from the exit barrier, F saw him and proceeded to enter the same way. Out of nowhere came a bouncer who said this is an exit only walk way and F needed to show some identification and proceed on through the entrance gate.

She then turned into some kind of monster and started shouting at the bouncer saying she wanted to go through the exit into the club. The Bouncer became a little annoyed and retorted..

"I guess you won't be going in then".

Now there was fire in her eyes and she whipped out her ID and gave the common Thai 'threat'...

"Do you know who I am?" While handing bouncer, who happened to be doing his job, her ID.

He took one long look and was probably jolted. Upon returning her 'I rule the world' pass, he apologized and let both Jon and F through. At this point, I thought, alright at least the drama was done but she went on..

"What the f*%& is your name? Do you want me to have you removed or transferred?"

The rest of the story was a bit of a blur but I met F, and although I thought she was quite stunning, her attitude left much to be desired.

I've always held a high regard to those coming from influential families who maintained a humbled posterior, to me that exudes class. It showed although being someone, there isn't any need to be putting it out there.

Unfortunately this is a common sight in Bangkok. Everytime an arguement erupts, some tosser would always bark "Do you know who I am?" Yes it does have its advantages, especially with the law, when the police appears they will always look at IDs and check last names.
My business partner holds quite a well known surname, his uncle is a famous ex-senator and a crusader against AIDS, and everyone, whether stopped by traffic police, a supplier we visit, client meetings, would always ask how are they both related when exchanging name cards.

Some people like the attention while others shun it, you probably know my preference but what is yours?

Zoom

2007-09-27T16:34:00.000+08:00

This week is flying by way too bloody quickly

lingua franca

2007-09-26T18:23:00.000+08:00

My flatmate has an array of friends here in Bangkok, foreign friends that is.

Lola was born in France and is of French Vietnamese heritage. Her late father was a retired professor who made a killing in the market while she assisted and studied the trade. A bubbly character and a bit of a party goer, her easy going character made her friends from all over.

I would come back from work to find a little get together happening, and as part host it was my duty to join them. The usual tipple would be vodka of assorted flavors, whiskey, wine, martini and beer. The real highlight of this get together is the language being conversed, since there are Thais, French, Japanese, French-Spanish, English, German speaking Frenchies, and others which I probably have forgotten.

Its like a crossfire of nationalities engaging in a barrage of discussions in different languages! Its quite amazing how diverse a little get together can be, and it felt like a mini United Nations assembly. If one would speak in their own language then they'd translate it after so no one would be left out, and of course in English!

I've heard a lot of negativity of the French, but one thing I have to admit is their ability to get along with their fellow countrymen of different race or religion, that and the passion they speak with while holding a conversation. You really don't know what the hell is going on or what they're talking about but all you know is their intensity the way they articulate.

I find these get togethers especially entertaining, and could just sit back with a glass of whatever poison and take into account the diverse multi lingual exchanges and learning new things everyday.

Right at the comfort of my own living room...

Chuckles

2007-09-24T13:42:00.000+08:00

Hahaha

This one left me in stitches

http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2007440331,00.html

Torment

2007-09-05T16:12:00.000+08:00

This morning at five, I was introduced to hell.

Soundly asleep, my phone went off and next thing I knew I was scrambling to the washroom for dear life. It was the beginning of torture beyond words.
Eyes barely opening I was on the phone while doing the deed and kept the sound at a minimum. Conversation went on for nearly half an hour while I attempted expertly to use the 'silencer' move.

All was fine and dandy, conversation was over and I was done on my throne. Cleaned up and made my way back to bed. Slowly I was drifting to unconsciousness when suddenly there was another bout of gut wrenching pain and zoomed back to the lavatory.

This went on non-stop from five till about half past ten, where I became so pale and drained, I passed out, luckily on my bed.
I had an hour's shut eye and could slowly feel a fever catching on. Feeling an urge coming on I hauled myself up and started expelling continuously into the bin.

By this time I was so drained and weak I could barely stay up and immediately fell back into bed. Feeling a little better after waking up around midday and was accompanied to the hospital with a friend.

It was little surprise with all the obvious signs that the doctor suspected food poisoning. Nee ways, I've been prescribed lots of antibiotics, vitamins and tylenol to speed up recovery.

So now I'm off to get plenty of rest and recuperate from Lucifer's den and I shall elaborate more on yesterday's post!

Aaaah...LOVE!

Audacity

2007-08-30T19:33:00.000+08:00

So its more or less confirmed the general elections will take place on the 23rd of December.

However, the European Union(EU) has decided to interfere by asking Thailand's own Election Commision(EC) to sign a memorandum of understanding(MoU) to allow their delegation to monitor the elections. Thailand then rebuffs them by rejecting the MoU, saying it shall conduct matters by their own laws and not wanting outsiders to exercise powers over local officials.

I particularly like what National Legislative Assembly(NLA) president Meechai Ruchupan had to say.

"If the EU holds an election, can we ask them to sign a memorandum of understanding and allow us to examine their election? Who is the EU? Is it the UN? Of course it is not. If it wants to observe the election, it should do like others do."

I think its an awful move from the EU, a slap in the face you could say. Its an internal matter and should be handled by no one else but thais.

Makes me wonder how on earth did they come up with this absurd idea of tying down the only country never to be colonized and also known as the 'Land of the free' with this memorandum.

Sad

2007-08-23T18:17:00.000+08:00

A while ago I joined my mate D, his gf and a friend, A for dinner. Arriving late, I apologized and offered to pick up the tab but was rebuffed by the three of them.

It was a good meal with flowed conversations and lots of laughter. A was certainly a looker. Young and beautiful, she was part of the successful sales team of a pubic listed company of imported luxury cars and I got to know her bf owns the largest pork slaughterhouse in central Thailand, which doesn't take a genius to conclude he's from a well to do background.

Fast forward to the present and I asked D how A was and he informed me her bf has terminal leukemia. There was nothing the doctors could do and he was seeking traditional treatment all the way in China. He added A was completely devastated, and I, shocked.

I've never met him before or why I'm actually blogging about this, but its a real cruel fate seeing what a cheery person A is and having to be dealt with this deplorable situation. Guess all the money in the world can't buy you everything.

I wish A and her bf spend their best times and have great memories etched during the final bend before he's taken into God's hands.

Serenaded

2007-07-21T13:57:00.000+08:00

I attended the Royal Thai Navy Symphony Orchestra in conjunction with the Red Cross Concert charity event held at the Thailand Cultural Center last night, accompanied by a beautiful date.

Mum, elegantly dressed and I had excellent seats - second row - courtesy of her childhood friend, the First Lady.

Upon being dropped off at the entrance, we were greeted by naval officers who politely ushered us to register our attendance and post our donations to the Red Cross.

I've always had a soft spot for the Thai Navy and have deep roots within.

My maternal grandfather was the Vice Admiral of the Royal Thai Navy and have heard nothing but praises left, right and center from figures or veterans in the navy or armed forces.

It certainly is admirable, making me simultaneously proud and honored be to his grandson. He was a well respected gentleman, husband, father, grandfather, civil servant and comrade.

A hero with dignified integrity, he was given a royally sponsored funeral, the highest honour provided by His Majesty the King, when he passed on with many of the military's elite in attendance, even the current Prime Minister who was then a general in the armed forces paid his respects.

I remembered each visit our family paid when he was still around. Grandpa would be in high spirits and delighted whenever we stopped by Bangkok. Yes, those were much cherished times without question and the fondest of memories I have of that gentleman.

I turned to mum, whispering how I missed him and she nodded and smiled with approval.

Back to the conert...

We were left mesmerized by the breathtaking performances of The Royal Thai Navy Orchestra conducted by the impressive Captain Narong Sangboot, the excellent saxophonist Captain Pasakorn Suwanaphan, and the three amazing guest vocalists, Bird Thongchai Mcintyre - Thailand's own King of Pop, who was brilliant with a capital B - , Pat Suthasinee Buddhinan and last but not least Teeranai Na Nongkai.

As the concert came to an end, the crowd were left extremely gushed and provided non-stop applauses for the outstanding performance. We all stood up and bowed as Her Royal Highness Princess Maha Chakri Sirindhorn, the guest of honor, made her exit with the Premier and other VIP guests in tow.

Despite the downpour, it was absolutely a pleasant evening being serenaded by the commended Royal Thai Navy Orchestra and in the company of a beautiful woman.

Nostalgic

2007-06-30T17:33:00.000+08:00

Thay say time is of the essence and awaits no man. Which means we have to make every minute count and not let it go to waste.

Many times, I wish I could turn back time and go back to right the wrongs. Undo the hurt I caused mum with sharp-tongued comments. Not to lock all of dad's keys in his car and learned a painful lesson. Hurt my childhood friend and making him despise me forever by stealing his girlfriend.

Yes I wish I could do all those mentioned, but I wish so much to be able to go back in time to my childhood days. I look back at those days and realize they were the carefree times where nothing mattered. The main priority was to be a lad and have all the fun one could without a care or worry in the world.

I still conjure up memories of the yesteryears where I spent so much time at home, with the dogs, out bicycling with neighbourhood friends, getting into mischief ALL day without having to worry about school, grades, life, love, hurt and everything else.

However, during those years I was so desperate to grow up quickly. I wanted to be an adult and conduct adult business. There were times I wished and prayed for a speedy leap from adolescent to adulthood. Funny how as adults we want to go back to our childhood and vice versa.

I can only tell younger teens to enjoy their present moment of not having to shoulder responsibilities they are inevitable to face in future, to the fullest. For when they look back at their childhood, a rather unfortunate thing would be not experiencing the thrills and excitement one could muster for those blink-of-an-eye years.

Sagittarius

2007-06-18T15:53:00.000+08:00

Do be : Optimistic, friend, contructive, knowledgeable, honest, outspoken, loyal and generous

Don't be : Hasty, hyprocritical, lustful, intolerant, clumsy

Dear Sagittarius,

You're loaded with work, so much so that you feel like a factory machine. Learn to let go and recognize your limitations.

Oh boy....

Enterprising

2007-06-05T18:17:00.000+08:00

Today's generation have leapfrogged the glory days of past heroes and become even more enterprising. With the internet virtually, no pun intended, a must for everyone in our everyday lives, blogs have become a crazed phenomenon.

Through its popularity, sponsors have tapped on to bloggers with high traffic by offering money in turn for written advertisements. Sort of like Google AdSense.

Step aside though, as Asia's up and coming blog advertising community, nuffnang is taking Malaysia and Singapore by storm. Soon the fever will be spreading to neighbouring countries but they are already racking up local memberships in high numbers.

So when I say enterprising, I mean nuffnang's co-founder, Timothy Tiah. I got to know him thru a very dear friend. I think he's found and done something overlooked by so many in the world and to think of his young age? So if you're an avid blogger, check out his site for more information. I personally like it because its a business venture with a lot of fun.

Nope, I'm not getting paid to write about it. But you've got to admit, its a brilliant and enterprising move. No?

Happy Mother's Day

2007-05-13T18:48:00.000+08:00

Wishing mumsy a very happy, Mother's Day..

Here's her tribute :

"Nothing compares to a mother's love. She looks with her heart and feels with her eyes. A mum is the bank where her children deposit all their worries and hurt. A mum is the cement that keeps her family together and her love lasts a lifetime."

I am so thankful for a woman who has given me the very best in life. The teachings, the advice, the lessons, the discipline. Had they not been laid upon me, I will not be where I am today. Thanks mumsy, you're one in a million!

TLC

2007-05-12T19:53:00.001+08:00

My sweetie Olivea getting a peck from her grandad

Ocean's Eleven

2007-05-12T18:44:00.001+08:00

Missing my buddies....

Escape

2006-11-16T06:51:00.000+08:00

It was Monday 6:55am.
Having worked nearly a hundred hours the past seven days, I decided to sleep in another hour before taking a near 4 hour drive to the seaside province of Prachuab Khiri Khan, making a few calls on the way notifying the relevent people of my absence.

Armed with just a camera and my free spirit, I slept on the beach front deck chair under the shade of pine trees accompanied by the sound of the clear blue sea. It was bliss at its best.

No phones ringing, mind at complete ease, feeling every inch of wind breezing thru the body and nothing, I mean nothing at all...but for the mild roar of the ocean.

de ja vu

2006-10-24T20:48:00.000+08:00

After the storm had stopped, I took a walk around the factory compound and along the side spotted a long puddle.

I stood there gazing at the artificial stream and there was a smile upon my face. I looked around for flat stones and after a handful, I skipped them along the puddle with a 5 year old's enthusiasm.

Skipping stones were one of our(P & I)favourite pastimes at the beach for a picnic.

It was a contented moment after an entire month of weariness.

Coup

2006-09-23T03:59:00.000+08:00

It seemed like any normal day, there were no warnings or any suspicion peace would be disrupted. Night fell, and I was gyming at the fitness center. A little before 11pm, an employee of the center made a speech on the P.A. :" Dear valued members, there seems to be a military coup against the government happening right this moment. Please gather your belongings and exit the facility calmly."

I then got a call from Nan, asking frantically of my whereabouts.

N: "Where are you?? Are you still at the gym??"

Me: "Just about leaving, dear."

N: "Go straight back to your condo, tanks and military humvees have made their way into the capital. A coup d' etat seem on the cards."

Me: "Will call you when I get home. Thanks luv."

The moment our conversation ends, calls and sms' came in to warn me about the situation. Some friends with inside info warned to stay indoors as no one knows just yet what was actually going on. I rushed back immediately, not knowing what to expect. It was both exciting and scary, thinking how I'm going to be part of Thai history and also the last coup staged was a bloody one.

I arrived safely at my condo and flipped on the tely as I got in but all channels were blocked and only a message in Thai, which I couldn't read, was on and from time to time an unidentified person would be making a speech of a coup and pleaded for Bangkokians to stay calm and be indoors until further notice.
Due to the condo's illegal scrambling of the satelite, I was able to view BBC news, and they too were not sure if the military were those of Thaksin's as he declared a state of emergency or that of the military top brass loyal to His Majesty the King.

I watched with concern as they were having a live feed on major streets and the government house being surrounded by tanks and soldiers, with a yellow ribbon, symbolizing the King's color, tied around their weapons. Managed to warn mumsy about the situation and thankfully she was at home the entire day and hadn't the slightest clue of what was happening.
Calls out were then jammed as the military scrambled signals and networks during this time but I managed to get a call from dad, inquiring about mum and my safety. At one point, he asked if we could get to the airport in case things get out of hand.

After staying glued to the tv, it became evident it was a military coup staged by the armed forces chief of Thailand, loyal to King Bhumipol, had seized power from Thaksin, who stands being accused of corruption and nepotism. It was done while he was away at the UN general assembly in New York.

The next day, a live telecast of the armed forces chief, navy admiral, air force head, national police chief and the supreme commander appeared and stated due to Thaksin's increasingly corrupt practice in the government, it was decided in the best interest of the country the military stage a coup with a promise to return to democracy and civilian rule by two weeks.

Next day after the coup, the city seemed desserted as many weren't sure what to expect but by evening everything had gone back to normal. Bangkokians knew this coup was consulted with King Bhumipol and it was the right decision.
I came back to Bangkok from Ratchaburi province and joined mates out for a drink, it was that normal.

Personally I thought the coup to be a positive move. Secondly, the armed forces chief, Gen Sonthi Boonyaratglin- the first Muslim army chief- now Chairman of the Council for Democratic Reform(CDR), to be an extremely capable and honest military man. He has been placed as a temporary premier while King Bhumipol and his Privy Councillors plus Gen Sonthi himself discuss a list of potential candidates to be interim prime minister.

Amazing Thailand

2006-09-11T17:53:00.000+08:00

Been quite an exciting past couple of weeks I must say. The crew from back home and their respective missus' paid Bangkok (and I) a visit. It was a fun filled time in the city shopping, taking tours to various renowned temples, Vimmanmaek - a mansion once occupied by King Rama the 5th, Suan Lum Night Bazaar, Chatuchak weekend market, and the much hyped Bed Supperclub.

We spent the next day at the beach of Cha Am province. Some of us sat and enjoyed the scenery while the rest including yours truly had an awesome time riding the banana boat - it was definitely an adventure. After a short rest we set out to experienced a relaxing and sometimes painful, traditional foot massage which was nevertheless a pleasant encounter. So what do you have for dinner when in a seaside province? Seafood of course! We tucked into a hearty feast that night and retired straight after dinner from an exhausting but fabulous day.

The next day was started early to catch the Sampran Elephant and Crocodile show in Nakhon Pathom province. Having lived for a decade in Bangkok, I hadn't even experienced such a popular tourist destination's must-sees as a Thai citizen. Can't really blame Bangkokians, even the date I brought never visited this famed elephant sanctuary.

Overall its been a trip full of fun and laughter. I'm glad they finally made the visit they promised the last ten years! Might be another ten come the next visit.

'Better late than never'

In our King we trust

2006-06-25T06:56:00.000+08:00

I am in awe of my adopted nation's monarchy in His Majesty King Bhumipol Adulyadej. Recently the entire nation celebrated the revered monarchs 60th anniversary on the accession to the throne - the longest serving monarch in the world. The projects His Majesty initiated from his foundation have proved a paramount of difference to the lives of the rural people. His tireless efforts, ingenious ideas, profound care of his subjects for sixty years since becoming King has catapult his status to that of a demi-god.

We as your loyal and humble subjects wish "Long Live His Majesty The Great King Bhumipol Adulyadej"

Supposed stress-free Sunday

2006-03-28T02:26:00.000+08:00

As Thailand experiences a political turmoil, the streets in Bangkok have witness mass protest from the democratic-seeking citizens and opposition. The peaceful protests have gathered much pace and last week's numbers stood close to 100,000 demonstrators. Many wore yellow, as a symbol against the interim government, respect for His Majesty the King, and democracy.

So on Sunday, I took the Metro to see mumsy for a spot of lunch and catch up. As I got down to head into The Emporium, a whole bunch of people were shouting "Thaksin Get Out!" at the entrance leading to the complex. Security were standing guard to prevent them from entering its premises and as I made my way thru the crowd, said personnel stopped me thinking I was a protester myself. I then realized I was wearing a YELLOW Polo shirt!

They turned me away even when I flashed them a privileged card as a member of the complex rather than a protester, but was still denied entry. I was absolutely furious. It wasn't really directed towards the security team, but to the protesters for making shoppers and patrons lives difficult. I am for democracy, but go stage your protests elsewhere, people are trying to have a leisurely weekend without any tension or drama.

Not wanting to be lynched by the mob, I kept quiet but told the complex's staff to take care of its patrons from the demonstrators. The main entrance was heavily guarded by police personnels, denying entry to protesters. Finally I was able to enter its premises after some reasoning with the authorities. What a Sunday! At least catching up with mum over lunch and tea was very satisfying indeedy. Been a long time since we both had time for each other.

However, on Wednesday around the same number of them will protest around my office and thank god I'm off to Malaysia early in the morning. I pity the upmarket shopping mall Siam Paragon, they are going to have huge throngs of protesters walking in and out of their establishment. Not exactly a comfort for shoppers locally and foreign.

Life is Beautiful

2006-03-15T13:37:00.000+08:00

I've been laid low recently by a stomach bug. I suspect the culprit to be the seafood dinner together with close friends.

So lately I've been travelling a bit especially outside Bangkok to the new facility. Its been good getting out of the city and getting in touch with nature. I made sure I stayed awaked - yes I fall asleep everytime being a passenger - to witness the cows grazing by the side of the road, and the never-ending stretch of both salt and shrimp farms. Ratchaburi is a small town a little more than an hour from Bangkok, renowned for its floating market in the mornings crowded with tourists and locals.

The new facility is actually 45 minutes away from the town center. So you can imagine traffic is quite bare around the factory. Behind the plant is a river, that connects to the floating market and it is just serene. Picture just spending the day sat on a wooden hut built by the river, feet dangling above the water waiting for a bite on the self-made fishing rod, while listening to nature with a beer-filled icebox sitting beside you.

I spent a good ten minutes just letting my imagination run havoc.

I can only describe it with my vision, but you should really see it in person. The camera ran out of battery before I could take any of the river behind. If you can't find me at the factory, check by the hut. You may just see me sleeves folded, pants rolled up, tie loosely done and a face wide with a smile.

2006-03-15T03:33:00.000+08:00

our raw material

2006-03-15T03:32:00.000+08:00

shining through

2006-03-15T03:30:00.000+08:00

coconut farm

2006-03-15T03:29:00.000+08:00

Looking out

Argh !

2006-03-02T06:25:00.000+08:00

I'm pissed...

I dropped my pen in a cab....

After a reunion with former uni mates....

It was a gift from a Hong Kong client.........

And it was a Mont Blanc...

Election Daze

2006-02-27T12:18:00.000+08:00

Finally, the parliament has been dissolved. Prime Minister Thaksin Shinawatra finally bowed to pressure due to the tax-free sale of his company, Shin Corp. Prominent academics, politicians, business figures, students and the general public have vented their dissatisfaction by taking to a well known location downtown to protest.

Considering the fact he sold his massive telecom company for a cool US$1.9 billion, not a single cent, or Baht for that matter went to tax. Thinking about it, its darn well absurd. Anyways, elections are set to be held in a few months' time and there's already a scramble to determine who will helm 'The Land of Smile'. Many say Thaksin will still win the upcoming elections but with lesser support. Some say the Democrats will take power from the previous government of Thaksin's Thai Rak Thai(TRT).

That would be interesting. The Democrats are led by the charismatic and very good looking, Abhisit Vejjajiva, seen here discussing with fellow politicians regarding last year's censure debate.
Asiaweek qoutes "Abhisit Vejjajiva is somehow too good to be true: a young lawmaker who abhors the old system and works tirelessly for a cleaner tomorrow. For the Thai people, used to some of the classic cigar-chomping, ill-informed loudmouths who stalk the halls of parliament, Abhisit offers a ray of hope".

His track record has been quite impressive. At 35, he has already served under two governments as a spokesman and Minister in the Prime Minister's Office, overseeing investment and education issues. Last year, when the Democrats under the old guard of Banyat Banthadthan came to realization after a crushing defeat by Thaksin, paved the way for a dynamic individual to take up the hotseat. Under new leadership, Abhisit has managed to persuade Orange Telecom joint CEO, Apirak Kosayodhin, a brilliant and well known top executive to be lured into politics and join the Democrats. Apirak would later go on to contest and win the governorship of Bangkok.

The Democrats basically have a younger generation steering the oldest political party in Thailand. It remains to be seen if TRT can be toppled, and even if the Democrats do stage a winning election, will Abhisit be able to weed out the bad image Thailand portrays as a haven for corrupt practices?
Its also going to be my first time voting on Thai soil since obtaining citizenship. Stay tuned...

Mortal beings

2006-02-22T13:21:00.000+08:00

These days, my relationship with dad has gained a rather significant leap. During my younger days, I'd always be the one arguing how I saw things my way. Basically all your stubborn elements found during adolescence. Looking at myself back then and realizing how much of a pain I was and, am quite pleased not to be giving him anymore grief...Or am I?

Last night I attended my senior's dad's funeral, and those memories flashed across me during the recital by monks of the Pali sanskrit. Peng was my senior back in university where we colleagues of the uni tennis team. Sadly for him, his dad met with an unfortunate demise by a fall in the bathroom. The partners and former team mates turned up to show our respects and to give him moral support.

I thought of dad the entire duration of the funeral. I remembered him telling me everyone dies, including him and I cried profusedly. I just couldn't imagine how life would be without him and of course, mum. He said even doctors die too, and I remember saying "No way!"(Used to think doctors were only 2nd to god). I mean how could a person who treats the sick, die?

Many a times we think we know it all, because we're living in the 21st century loaded with modern mentality, information and attitude, but its all a facade really. No one knows better than our parents, they've been there, done that and they've certainly been through what we're just about to face. Their invaluable experience is what has guided them to their successes today. Doesn't hurt to listen, as I'm sure our parents only want the best for us.
Not all parents show it, but they have their own special way of expressing their love for us.

I think we as a human race, take everything for granted. Don't. You may never have the chance to show your gratitude to your own flesh and blood again. From a distance tonight, I could see Peng's mind wander about. I can bet he was thinking of the good and bad times he shared with his dad, and how he would never have the chance to again.

Deepest condolences, bro. Be strong, you'll make your dad proud when you're up there in the sky. Good luck to you achieving your wings. We're here for you always.

Good news

2006-02-18T09:56:00.000+08:00

With much joy and relief as an important phone call came through.

"After much careful consideration, the board has unanimously approved Earth Born's loan for expansion. Congratulations!"

We were in seventh heaven. High fived the managing director before giving each other a hug. It took a government-backed bank over half a year before our funds were approved. In a world filled with corruption and red tape, it took that long for our capital injection to come. Controversially, we had heard this bank providing huge amounts to politicians. In they walk through the front door, and out the back they go, in less than an hour with a naffy 30 million cheque in their pocket. After seven months, we're finally able to go to sleep without the stress that has accumulated for such long periods of time. In business, it is always important to stay in competition with your competitors. With this secured, we are now able to move into our expansion phase to manufacture more and at least capture 15-20% of the world market.

I should be happy, out celebrating and just painting the town red...but its been a gruelling 7 months. I wish my family were close, I wish she was nearby. Its always tough, so many sacrifices one has to make to keep climbing up that ladder. I'm loving it, so far I've adapted myself to this industry with some hits and misses but hey, its all a learning process isn't it? Another good piece of news to add to a promising start in 2006.

Bad Press

2006-02-15T12:34:00.000+08:00

Today was press conference day as the company in conjunction with the Ministry of Health launched the latest spa collection. It would be my first time meeting the minister in charge(whom we'll call 'PJ'), but he caused an uproar with some very insensitive comments.

He was talking about the abundance of flowers available in Thailand to be used as an ingredient for various spa products and after that commented "We also have many 'gold flowers' around". I shall explain. When we translate 'gold flower' or Dok Thong, literally means a slut. It may not sound as vulgar in english, but believe you me, it is frowned upon in Thai society. 'PJ' chose to score an own goal in front of the media people and us. I could see many female reporters extremely disgusted with his comments while his deputies tried to play it down by forcibly laughing. While he congratulated our company, our CFO and I were left disappointed by such a classless act. Personally, I think he doesn't know how to do his job. He doesn't know one bit about the health sector, but he merely knows where to 'dip his fingers into'.

I did what anybody would do - Keep my comments to myself. Our paths will cross again, so for the moment I'll just keep my cards close to my chest. I just hope for the sake of the country's health sector, 'PJ' doesn't stay too long in this portfolio. I certainly hope not....

Be a man?

2006-02-12T11:55:00.000+08:00

Been a busy February this time round, work has been 24/7 ever since coming back from Chinese New Year. Speaking of which, was not too bad a break although I had to be asked to tend to the restaurant during the busy festive period.
I just realized, I'm going to be 27 this year...I still can't believe I'm gonna be that figure at the end of the year. All I can say is, its all downhill from 22... Time just creeps up on you, you know? Saying that, both mumsy and dad are also getting on and soon to be hitting their sixties...

What can I say about them... They are my inspiration, without them I would never be able to have this day. Time and time again, they have thrown their support behind me and given invaluable advice. I'm really a blessed person. I've been brought up with the close guidance of mum in the etiquette department, all manners go through her inspection...Even these days! Dad gives me advice on how to become a man, to slog it out, never give up and always maintain an ethical work code. He never ceases to give me business advice, which have come in handy. Basically, I've adopted the softer side from mumsy and the no-nonsense approach from dad.

Anyways, coming back to being 27, suddenly a rush of objectives come to mind. Gotta make sure my goals are achieved for 2006 so my plans can trigger a chain reaction of events I've earmarked. Tell you something...Surprising. The other night at dinner, we were sat down having a nice meal together when a toast was proposed by dad, wishing all the very best for his granddaughter, my niece's safe arrival come April, the continuous success of my business and...Also a suitable time for me to TIE THE KNOT. I literally choked. I'd never expected him to tell me to settle down this early. Ok, my brother settled down at 28 and dad thought he could have waited a couple more years and now he wants me to settle down at 27-28... I looked at my brother, my heavily pregnant sister in-law, and mumsy dearest with a shocked expression, and guess what? So were they!

Truth be told, I'd love to settle down, but this is just so unexpected because its coming from dad. All the more, it is quite encouraging as it signals my readiness as, a man from his point of view. Now that the light is green, the potential candidates however, aren't as bright as the prospects of heading into holy matrimony. I do have a soul mate, I know she's the one but time doesn't seem to be on our side, while the current cluth of ladies I'm dating DO NOT meet the requirements of the title Mrs. Many times, I crave having someone waiting at home when I get back from work. To be brutally honest, I've had fun, been there, done that and had enough of. Its Bangkok for god's sakes, all the best parties and night activities are here.

But I've decided to put that thought aside for now. So many goals to achieve this year that leaves me hardly any time to myself. Thanks dad, that was really an unexpected move from you, but nevertheless a touching one. If it does happen, then it'll happen. I shan't go out of my way to prove it, as they say... 'Good things come to those who wait'.

Rolling up the sleeves

2006-01-17T16:12:00.000+08:00

The challenge has already begun...

2006

2006-01-05T02:35:00.000+08:00

A very Happy New Year 2006 to everyone out there. Besides packing in the pounds with non-stop eating sessions, its utterly relaxing to be back. I have till next week before heading back so I'm definitely taking time to savior every moment.

Christmas and new years were both spent differently from last year but nontheless, very satisfying. I hadn't really mapped out this years resolutions but just a couple of pointers I did have in mind during new year eve's dinner. Working my socks off and travelling.
2005 was quite a year, it started off slow but ended strongly and I'm really pleased with areas regarding the work front. There's going to be a lot more hard work this year but I am looking forward to the challenge.

As for now, I'm just going to take it easy, and reflect on potential targets I may have missed out for the new year. Wishing everyone seasonal blessings heading your way, overcoming challenges with ease and remember to do good towards yourself and others. All this with impeccable health, passionate love, continuous happiness and neverending prosperity - Happy New Year!

On fifth gear

2005-12-17T19:14:00.000+08:00

Barely able to lift an eyelid, I trudged back to my humble abode at half past two in the morning. How I wish I was out having a cold one with the company of friends. No, I had just finished from the office, for the day in fact. I'm sure our Belgium clients would be pleased we're firing on all cylinders for their shipment.

The weather's been very pleasant of late. Its been chilly in the mornings and breezy during the night. Seems its going to get colder, how fantastic when I'm just 3 days from leaving the capital. Three days! I'm really excited to see my friends and family. Somehow its always the festivities that brings one especially closer to their loved ones. The holiday cheer. I'm definitely running on it as it gives me my final spurt of...e...n...e...r...g....y......

Birthday Bender

2005-12-02T00:09:00.000+08:00

I'm officially 26 now and boy oh boy, celebrations lasted for 5 days...imagine, I could have been unofficially 31...Celebrations were quite wild, needless to say - 5 day bender. Go figure. Regret not getting any snaps, unless I get hold of the media to spare a few. Had a lot of guests, got to know even more. Overall, I enjoyed myself although I didn't overdo the bubbly.

Koh the Saxman gave a 5 song sax performance. What a birthday present that was. Thailand's own Kenny G, even some say he's better. Then there was a catwalk by some of Thailand's top models. It was a tad disappointing as they seemed unenthusiatic. Shrugs. Models..maybe some forgot to powder their noses before hitting the runway.

Its already December...Wow! Christmas is just round the corner. Can already feel the holiday cheer warming up. Lots of work to clear up then a deserved trip back home to visit family and friends.
Cheers..

Cautious

2005-11-20T17:50:00.000+08:00

This past month has been a challenging one. Never before would I expect to make such life altering decisions at this age. In my previous post Ben-ja-ped I had forewarned myself it would be a real test during my quarter century experience. I went to the temple to make merit and also paid my respects to the revered Four Faced Buddha and asked for guidance.

Next week I turn 26 and some friends have already plotted something, but I'm all set to miss the appointed dinner for a meeting instead at the new factory site. However, they reiterated dinner wasn't the main agenda...now that's what I'm afraid of.

Easy Come, Easy Go

2005-10-12T02:52:00.000+08:00

Today's meeting with a fellow countryman client went positive although no contracts were yet signed. His official visit to our factory was to conduct an audit as a compulsory adherence to an ISO 9002 certified entity. Poor fella, the weather was so hot he was struggling and with Ramadan(Muslim fasting month)didn't help his definite dry throat after such a lengthy discussion.

He insisted I acknowledge him on a first name basis and it was a bit awkward. Prior to meeting up, we exchanged e-mails and phone conversations and I'd always address him with a title before a name. The pro's about this is it makes the discussions quasi serious/casual. Overall : Good. I know I do tense up at discussions so this situation worked to my advantage.

At one stage of our conversation, we talked about government agencies backing local companies in the health sector. In Malaysia, the ethnic Malays(muslims) are what we call "Bumiputra(s)" or Bumi's for short and they are given certain privileges compared to the remaining two races(Chinese and Indian)in society. The government backs a lot of Bumi companies by approving business loans, some at very large amounts. Some companies have visionary leaders but unfortunately less ambitious employees and some have extremely capable hired help with an extremely incompetent leader. He tells me every year, government throws away millions of our Malaysian Ringgit(RM) to these establishments.

I could relate to his comments as I recalled a friend who was an apprentice at one of the Big Four accounting firms, attended a meeting with the head of the government's financial arm. Every question she posed to the official, the reply would be "Not sure", "Have to get back to you", "Haven't thought about it yet", or the very common words one would hear in the Malaysian culture "Tak Tau"(I don't know). Being the head of the largest government financial institute, one's decisions are critical especially to the local and foreign companies who need to know about its governance and policies. And my friend was only an apprentice...

I used to think the Bumiputras were so lucky with financial backing from the government. In time, it can only take off and prosper with the means in the first place. Its just sad seeing so much money go to such waste. Some have folded with an unimaginable loss due to less than abled leader's guidance. Its a bit prejudice one would say, any business could go bankrupt but how does one make an institute with some hundred million(RM) in government backing go under?

Its not my place to say anything, but I do reserve the right to my opinions eventhough I am just a young adult trying to cut it in the business world. Some are luckier than others, some have to walk the extra mile just to make enough, while some just get there with the snap of their fingers. To those who strive harder to get there its definitely more worth it, I'm sure we tend to appreciate it a whole lot more with that befitting satisfaction.

Recharging the Soul

2005-10-11T16:03:00.000+08:00

Its been a very satisfying break for the past 2 weeks. Heading back, just relaxing, chilling with the family and friends recharged the soul. Managed to pack in a few pounds at the same time too. Realized living all alone in another country makes you see you're working your butt off to do your parents proud and achieve your desired goals.

In Bangkok, I seem to thrive on making it in life. The loneliness and self-disclipine spurs you on to challenge your inner demons. It wasn't easy leaving home, the place of comfort, where one is so used to getting pampered, where striving really isn't on the menu but more of taking-it-as-it-comes. I thank my parents for giving me this opportunity, for they reluctantly allowed me the freedom to choose my preferred destination or profession. Their continuous backing is what I always hold close to my heart, and that's probably why day in, day out I live life as a workaholic.

Fact of the matter is I had a great time-out, nowhere better to enjoy it than your home base. To my great bunch of (skirt-wearing)friends -LOL-, thanks for coming out for the chats and beers. Wish you guys the very best in your working paths and that of your love lives. Don't ever be a stranger...

Wednesday

2005-09-22T13:03:00.000+08:00

For a change, I'm back at the apartment earlier than usual. The week's flown by at light speed and I'm looking forward to Friday when I'm headed back home! Or am I...Doctor's appointment has already been made on the day of my arrival so I'm cringing nervously. Haven't thought much about it, being caught up with work sure takes your mind off your well-being.

Been clearing up company issues before heading back to Malaysia. Still awaiting bankers' decision after evaluating the new manufacturing plant. Time is of the essence. Apart from that, had a wonderful dinner with clients from Beijing. Real classy ladies. Spoke excellent English, although the other was more fluent in Mandarin/Cantonese. At the end of the night, I was presented with a Mont Blanc pen! Real classy. Penning Beijing as destination for November. Been hearing so much about it, gotta see for myself.

Apart from that, I'm totally over the moon as I'm going to be an uncle. Whoa..geez, not sure if I'm ready for that but heck I'm so excited. Finally, after almost 5 years of marriage, my brother and the Mrs. are going to have a family. Mum was even more excited as she texted me the wonderful news. I guess she can't wait to be a grandmother. Bless her.

Time waits for no man

2005-09-12T11:45:00.000+08:00

Aaah, finally some time to catch up on some blogging. Well, its been quite a fortnight. Trade show went really well, better than we'd expected actually. Managed to close our booth 3 hours before time on the final trade day. The company's first time, partners' first time, my first time! It was quite exciting and the response was great.

Many traders who came to speak to us were surprised at our age. It actually took some convincing. Nevertheless, we were happy to be out there. Our main goal was to introduce ourselves, our methods of production and also getting to know clients. Currently, all major spa companies in Thailand are already our clients, and more to come from various parts of the world. I received an e-mail inviting our company to join the trade show in Dubai and Malaysia. I see a window of opportunity to do a stopover in Penang hehehe.

I'm planning to trip back home anyways as I've discovered a lump/cyst. Would like a second opinion from doctors I frequent. Kinda nervous about it. Hopefully its nothing.
Can't believe its already Sunday, the week goes by so quickly these days. Was at the factory till late in the evening today, so there goes my much needed R&R. Tomorrow's a big day - bringing two bankers over to our new factory 2 hours away from Bangkok, to evaluate its worth for some capital injection.

Right, time for a nice shower and its off to La-La-Land.

Light Monday

2005-08-23T00:15:00.000+08:00

I love this joke and seem to laugh over and over again everytime I read it

The Los Angeles Police Department (LAPD), The FBI, and the CIA are all trying to prove that they are the best at apprehending criminals.
The President decides to give them a test.
He releases a rabbit into the forest and each of them has to catch it.

The CIA goes in. They place animal informants throughout the forest. They question all plant and mineral witnesses. After three months of extensive investigations they conclude that rabbits do not exist.

The FBI goes in. After two weeks with no leads they burn the forest, killing everything in it, including the rabbit. They make no apologies. The rabbit had it coming.

The LAPD goes in. They come out two hours later with a badly beaten bear. The bear is yelling: "Okay! Okay! I'm a rabbit! I'm a rabbit!"

BKk

2005-08-20T12:18:00.000+08:00

*Hoot* *Hooooooooooot*

The fog horn blows as another ship leaves Port Klong Toey.

My condo overlooks the Bangkok port and I see everynight, cranes picking up cargos' and transferring them onboard for shipment. Its beautiful at night, with the lights orangey blending together the yellowness of the giant cranes. After a long day at the office, I come back, put on some music and glance out the balcony of this. Everynight. Moments before crashing out till the very next morning.

Work has been hectic. The company's expanding and I'm glad to be playing a keyrole in it heading north. I'm actually heading the business development department, and smiled when it was given to me as its also the same position as my brother, Shanne's.
We're presently busy preparing for the trade show coming up in a fortnight's time. We're expecting some interested multinational companies dropping by to visit our booths, so one can imagine the preparations for such an event.

At any rate, things are looking fine at the moment. Enjoying the challenges being thrown at. Kinda miss home, as in family, dogs Austin & Sandy, friends, and the simplicity that is so abundant in Penang. Pace of Bangkok life is perfect for my age, as some would prefer the term yuppies. Funny thing is, I always lose myself when in a restaurant with clients or dinner meetings. I'd look at their decos, tables, chairs, cutlery, waiters appearance, service, quality, comfortness...and I'd zap back again into reality.

When I've build up this company, I shall...no, I will open up another restaurant. And here I thought the F&B spirit had died...Cheers to the future.

2005-08-02T07:53:00.000+08:00

This is my last post from Penang island. The past week has been very memorable and emotionally draining. I just want to thank my really wonderful crew for setting up two farewell drinking and dinner sessions. Really gonna miss you guys. Just a short post, as its 4 hours before I get up and 6 more before my plane departs.

Don't worry guys, I'll never forget my roots and I sure as hell won't forget my buddies. If all goes well, I'd like for you all to visit me during the opening of our new plant. We've always talked about achieving success in our lives, and if all goes to plan, I'd like to celebrate that moment with no one else but you guys and my family. Our frienship together has helped toughen each other and instill the sheer hunger for making it in life. For that, we have each of us to thank for.

So my friends, be the best you can be and always strive to aim for the top. I'm really going to miss you fools a lot.

Bittersweet

2005-07-27T17:15:00.000+08:00

Feeling better, although its an off-on kinda behavioral pattern. Had a nice farewell dinner plus chit chat with family and a good time chilling after with the crew. Bill got back from his business trip from China so it was good seeing him again. KrishakaGrumps joined up later with some encouraging news of his first posting overseas by the company in India. Really happy for him. It was time the bright lights were shown upon him. I expect to see him in Bangkok in the near future.

Took a long, slow jog this evening around the neighbourhood. Of all the times I been doing that, today was the first time I really took to the surroundings. The weather was perfect, light sun with intermittent breeze. Left, right, left right. My heart beating faster as my steps quicken. I'm going to miss all this when I'm in the big city. No more laid back lifestyle. Its all ball busting from here. Suddenly I realized I didn't entirely want to leave. However, a challenge lies ahead, so what does one do? Back away? No siree. Going to grab this opportunity with both hands. Just taking some time to absorb what I'll be missing. I don't think anyone can argue with me when I say we take almost everything for granted. When its time to part, all the good memories rush out like gushing water from a broken hydrant.

Anyways, lots of nostalgia at the moment. Last weekend was forgetful. I am however, getting thru the pain of that numbing insensation. It only enhances my believe of fate - whatever happens, happens for a reason. You can quote me on that. Getting on with life. As I know it, so does someone special in my life. I've got a world to conquer.

May the force be with me...

Life goes on

2005-07-24T14:54:00.000+08:00

Suffering personal losses are a real devastation in life, that goes without saying. Sometimes when its others' losses, we're not as adversely affected as they are. At most, we sympathize with their misfortune, bemoaning their unfortunate luck. Just like the 9/11, where so many were killed especially while running down the fire escape to exit WTC, or the plane that drove into the buildings' destruction with passengers seemingly knowing their fate. The tsunami devastation that wiped out some islands and its population which included holidaymakers in parts of Asia. The London bombings which took the lives of some, who heard the news of the underground destruction, then took the no.30 bus instead leading to their fated demise.

We all pick ourselves up and move on with life...in time. As the saying goes 'Life goes on'. We continue living for we are still alive, and those who perished would have wanted us to do what they won't be able to.
I too, suffered a personal loss. Devastated? Immensely. Feelings? Numb. Thoughts? Lost. I won't disclose this loss on my blog, as its a personal one that requires anonymity. I am however, writing this entry as a statement of going on living to the fullest as possible because we are, after all, still alive and potential for leaps and bounds.

Life throws us a lot of uncertainties which makes life unpredictable. Sometimes, it hits you when you least expect it. I know this devastation will blow over after some time, if I don't seem in high spirits of late, please excuse the partypooper in me. I will however try and put the saying into action because if I don't, I shouldn't have the luxury of living anyways...

Fate and its blessings

2005-07-06T17:33:00.000+08:00

At the moment, I am sorting out for some personal effects to be sold and one of them is my wheels. Trusty Beemer, went on the papers the first day and I was flooded with calls while still in bed. Had some people all the way from KL inquiring, some nice father's asking on behalf of their sons, some rude 2nd hand car dealers and some idiots who ask about details already stated in the ad on the papers.

Was a slow Monday as I drove to the restaurant. The weathers been unbearable of late. Universal climate is somewhat screwed up. As I drive by, head turning left and right searching for a parking lot, a motorcyclist reverses and knocks into my passenger side door. I was truly annoyed.

I got down and confronted the culprit for his carelessness. He seemed old and his slow movement justified it, but I wasn't sure with his shades covering.

He was quiet as I questioned his way of compensation. At that point I began to calm down a little as he seemed rather lost for an explanation.

The thing that boiled my blood was this unassuming indian bloke walking by and telling me I wasn't supposed to enter this road. I immediately lashed back about how on earth did these vehicles managed to park the same direction and promptly told him to piss off.

At that point I almost lost the plot. My car's obviously evident dent. Target selling price will now take a dip.
Simultaneously the culprit who fender bendered my ride took off his shades to reveal an old, sickly looking bloke. He had transparent eyes that somehow looked connected to his deteriorating health.

He offered me RM50 for the damage. I said it was only good for workmanship fee alone and not the repairs. He countered he wasn't well off and was seeking free treatment from the clinic a few blocks from the restaurant. He really did look ill, however I was still seething from my misfortune and having to bear the repair costs.

I took it off him and trodded back to the restaurant. While pacing back I could feel myself trembling. It was the tremble from the sight that kept replaying in my mind. His pitiful facial expression.

As I look back at the scenario when he reached into his wallet to find a fifty, he had this look of daze. Wondering how he would be able to recoup that lost fifty for other neccessary uses.
As he handed me the bill, I could see he was close to tears.

There was nothing but flashbacks and I thought to myself about the whole incident again. Yes, he does look sickly.
Yes, the clinic he sought help was famous for its free treatment. Did I mentioned he looked frail? Everything suddenly was clear in my mind. I felt so guilty. So guilty that I was my concious was eating me up replaying the scenario over and over again.

The damage was easily ten times more but I made a decision.

I headed towards the clinic, with the nearby shops all looking at me from the earlier confrontation. They're probably thinking I'm going to demand more for the damage. I tapped the poor gentleman on the shoulder and he turned.

I say softly as a packed clinic hushed to eavesdrop. "Sir, its ok. Please use the money for your treatment. And ride carefully".

His expression changed and I will never forget his smile.
Like the ones we see from elderly people we help cross the street, or the ones we turn to say hi in our early morning jogs. I could see the people around the clinic whispering to each other while looking at me. I didn't care if it was praise or scorn. I walked out of there with my conscience clear and feeling a sense of relief. I looked back, my thoughts centered around his face, which I suddenly replaced with my dad's or even myself. I would have wanted that person to do the same too.

I am glad I did what I did. I am glad my parents instilled morality throughout my life. I am glad my religion taught me to forgive and forget. Most of all, I am glad I could make someone, with an unfortunate condition...

Smile.

Back

2005-06-24T07:52:00.000+08:00

What a week its been. Past seven days were not wasted at all in Bangkok. In fact I wasn't even able to get souvenirs for friends and family. However, on the work front things seem to be positive. After inspecting the production line, studying the market potential and assessing the future of this entity, I decided to join Earth Born.

Its a total change from the restaurant biz but like I said, I've always wanted to be in the export front. I shall be joining in the capacity of International Sales Coordinator overseeing the foreign sales portfolio. I will soon be packing my bags and heading over to Thailand's capital to begin my new profession.

I'm sad leaving the food business that I have grown fond of, but everyone evaluates their potential and makes a decision that may vary. A new challenge is on the cards and I am both excited and nervous about this transition. I shall be leaving with a heavy heart especially when I've become closer to friends and family than ever before, but they have been great in supportiing and offering their best to my future.

I know there's someone who is equally thrilled with my transition. Thank you for believing in me even sometimes venting frustrations, I know deep down you care. I intend to work doubly hard. I am glad you inspire me.

Really am.

Winds of change?

2005-06-15T12:33:00.000+08:00

There seems to be a winds of change at the career frontier. I am taking some time off to go Bangkok and study up about Virgin Coconut Oil(VCO). My ex university mates have founded a company, Earth Born Co,. Ltd - the only company on the planet to have a unique way of extracting VCO without compromising the amounts of left over nutrients.

I believe frienships forged during university life always has its blessings. We were a close knit group back in those days and knew each other inside out. I remembered last year during my visit to Bangkok to attend the funeral of a group members' father. There was a discussion then about hatching this idea and as time passed I thought it couldn't conceived, therefore shelved. Just recently I get a call from one of them asking me to jump on board this venture.

This sorta puts me in a fix as I'm actually working towards an expansion for the restaurant. I figure I'll just correspond from home for the time being and see thru the completion of the successful expansion, then the picture will be clearer. Mumsy and pops have given me their support for whatever decision I come to and that's really sweet. Guess they only want me to be happy.

So off I go to an adventure totally new and unknown, but its the challenge that excites me. I've always wanted to go into the exporting business. Too bad pops retired before I could join him. So now I'm presented with a golden opportunity and I shall take it with both hands. This slow, laid back town is making me stale. This could be just the thing to recharge myself.

Wish me luck...

Ignorance

2005-06-09T13:10:00.000+08:00

It was a beautiful day while driving to the restaurant. I was in good spirits, singing along to Maroon 5's 'Sunday Morning' playing on the radio. At the traffic lights I come to a stop behind a brand spanking new Mercedes Benz C200 Kompressor. I was admiring the shape of the lights, the color on this fine machine when suddenly a can of drink was unceremoniously thrown out from the driver's side!

I was utterly amazed. You would think a person being able to afford a car made by a first world nation would at the very least have some first world manners. I just couldn't believe it. Mind you it was on a busy road and not anywhere near the curb so the council cleaners can get rid of it. Nevermind that, the main point is one being able to drive an RM200 over thousand car would at least have some education about littering. I shook my head in total disbelief.

Why is it that we have first world facilities but with a third world mentality? Here we are complaining day in day out to the city council about beautifying the city when we can't even cooperate in keeping it clean? What's the big deal in reaching your destination and depositing the rubbish into a waste basket or a trash bin?

Come on people, I'm not trying to make this world a better environment but we can all do our part in not being a litter bug. Rubbish bins are where the rubbish go. Not floors, roads, rivers, drains, and what I really was amazed while driving was the signage.
I actually laughed because it was a DENDA RM500 MEMBUANG SAMPAH SINI sign and around it was nothing but rubbish! All lying in a neat pile right under the penalty sign!

Maybe its just human behavior. Like the saying 'Rules are meant to be broken' comes to mind. Even in my restaurant, with the sign emblazooned 'NO SMOKING', I still get muppets lighting up on a busy lunch or a crowded dinner. Hello? Did you see any ashtrays on your table or others? Its nice when I have regulars telling the next table its a smoke-free restaurant and pointing to the warning across them. (They then embarrasingly stub out their ciggarettes)

I can only sum these behaviors up as one thing - Ignorance...

Monday...Blues?

2005-05-31T15:27:00.000+08:00

I was annoyingly distracted at the restaurant of an issue that's been agonizing me this year. Due to my inability to halt a component in my system called 'feelings', I am therefore suffering the consequences. Closure has always been something I've had trouble achieving but finally rendering it as time goes by. Maybe its actually denial, rather than closure? Could be.

For a while now I've been pretty contented with my personal life as it is. P and I managed to come to an understanding about our feelings. Since then I feel happy because we're still entwined in each other's lives. We miss each other, but we don't say it. We feel it in the tone of our voices. P and I have a funny relationship. We obviously care for each other, but we aren't together. Officially or unofficially. There's still the fluttering heart when we see each other. Still the warm and beautiful moments everytime we're within each other.

The thing is its driving me crazy. Good feelings such as these are so so truly hard to find. So why are we doing this? One part of me just prefers it if this ended, but the other part of me? The other part of me actually sees her vividly in my life. Its like..picture perfect. Too scared to let go of a potentially good thing but also too cautious not to rush into uncertainty.
I play down this feeling. P will be back soon and from there we can slowly see if things work out.

"I might not come back till next year" she says.

She then proceeds to explain about her internship during the summer, holiday with friends and travel itinerary with parents. I was lost for words. All of a sudden my heart sank. We've maintained our confusing-yet-wanting relationship to a cautious extent, whereby we have our commitments in life that take first priority. So there's an understanding which makes us feel great about each other.

Last night's conversation just blew me away. Now I'm really afraid that the perfect momentum we've been maintaining just so to pass over before we can see each other again, will have taken a backseat. Sometimes, the reason we maintain our focus of such a behavior(of not exercizing our true feelings)is because we see a better time for it to happen therefore refrain. What happens now? Its the last day of May and we're talking about 6 months...minimum!

Maybe I should just move on and not linger in this love hazard. I don't know where this is headed and judging from this scenario, it doesn't look like its going to go too smoothly.
So many thoughts are running through my head. Why can't I just go with a person who is physically and mentally available here? Why is it my mind keeps telling me to go deeper, further into the unknown to find out..if I can be happy as I once was.

Just then, the phone rang and I was disconnected from my trip to La La Land.

Our elusive relationship is what propels me to want it to happen. Distance is a barrier, and true to its Thai saying -"Rak Tae Pae Klai Chid" (True love succumbs to close proximity).

Rekindling the past

2005-05-30T17:21:00.000+08:00

Over the weekend, my mates and I dropped by a watering hole to convey our birthday wishes to a friend. I'd been there before. Lounge set up. Light music. Sofas' and comfy cushioned chairs of oak trimming. Various alcohol selections on menu. Perfect for business chats, family outings, close-knit group outings, and basically honeymoon period couples.

As I reached the second floor the music tempo was different from its usual fair. It was hard house blasting out speakers. There were at least 80 guests. He greeted us and we in turn wished him many happy returns. Then I realized it was a private party and immediately was transported back in time to my Bangkok Daze.

During my tenure as an artist-rep at a well known events management firm, I attended gazillions of private parties -drugs, alcohol, celebrities, gorgeous women, corporate bigwigs. Basically if you've been to one, you've been to all.

Why?

See, at one private party you'll meet the same people again and again at future private parties. These are the people who can't seem to stay away from the limelight.
I had the distinct pleasure to be introduced to Sonya Couling and Methinee Kingprayom -two of Thailand's best known supermodels.
I didn't last long at these parties cause I was already too knackered babysitting so-and-so who has come into the kingdom for a performance, but it looked exactly alike from my time in the city of angels.

I stood there smiling and saying hi to a few familiar faces for a maximum 20 minutes before bolting out of the noisy party. I've never seen a private party in full swing before on this island, so it was a real culture surprise in a way. But for that full twenty minutes, I was able to feel like I was back there again. How often is one able to relive the memory of the past even just as a bystander?

Rarely...

2005-05-27T06:52:00.000+08:00

Shanne:"Is it possible for Michelle to get me a Liverpool shirt?"
I didn't even wanna ask why..
Shanne:"Maybe you could ask for me. Oh did you know Liverpool won?"
Jeremy:"I know they won. You left when the score was 0-3, remember?"
Shanne:"Ok, just thought you might like to know."

Prick was trying to wind me up cause I was cheering when Crespo hit the third. Grrr...

Cheers

2005-05-26T20:50:00.000+08:00

I am in mourning. Milan lost. After leading 3-0 before half-time, the Italians lost their concentration in the second half and allowed Liverpool to regain their composure to square the game 3-3 and finally bringing it to a penalty shootout after the same scoreline as extra time expired.

Complacency came back and bit their arses with the semi-final clash against PSV Eindhoven a classic example. This time there was no Massimo Ambrosini. How incredibly Liverpool's usually error-prone keeper -Jerzy Dudek - kept out Shevchenko's extra time bullet header and follow up out? I have no idea. I had a gut feeling with those misses, the game looked to be swinging Liverpool's way.

Kudos to the English side for their fightback. They deserved it more than their opposition. Gerrard proved himself to be a true captain by inspiring his team to rise from the dead, and now, champions once again in Europe. I'm pretty sure my brother will be so thrilled. He left the tv room as soon as Milan scored the 3rd goal during the first half. How would that be to wake up finding your team winning the Champions League after being three goals down? Totally wicked.

Well done, Liverpool. Congratulations.

"Ben-ja-paed"

2005-05-25T14:23:00.000+08:00

We believe in Thai culture of males in their mid twenties i.e. 25, are entering a phase in their lives. That is what we call "Ben-ja-paed". In another words, it will be a tricky period of that individual.

Currently I am in that phase and I really need to watch my step. Last night I got into an accident with a motorbike -with no headlights on. Him hitting me was bad enough but as I helped him upright his fallen machine, stepped on and broke his fallen side mirror. Great. Whether its a myth or not, I just hope I won't be subjected to seven unfortunate years.

One of my cooks explained to me in detailed that its like a make or break phase, either you hit it right or fail and fail miserably. That is why it is a strong belief one should make merit from time to time at temples. Then again, its up to individuals to believe this or not but in situation where this heritage is part of me, I'll just be very careful about my moves for the year. 'Better safe than sorry'.

Day off rant

2005-05-18T06:04:00.000+08:00

Shit, I need to blow off some steam. On a positive note, a cigarette didn't come to mind. Funny how I thrived on them and now, I totally despise everything about it. Usually if I'm stressed out I'd go to the gym and torture the body but I've just had a late lunch so I'll let time pass for now.

The neighbours' youngest is playing the violin, one of the many musical tuitions her parents have given. Now I hear piano. Is it the school holidays?? Hmm..Usually they'll be on one of their instruments but only on the weekends and the school holidays. They're pretty decent, for their age I should say they're not bad at all.

I never learned any musical instruments during my childhood. It was mostly tennis and BB guns. A tiny regret. Wish I played the piano or the guitar. Maybe even the saxophone. I think its such a personal achievement for any guy to be able to enthral an audience, a friend, a loved one or anyone with their musical ability. Its not too late, but I haven't the luxury of time. I'll keep that in future reference.

I salute guys especially who are able to impress with their musical talents. Just seems like they had a more meaningful childhood. Mine was, just not in a musical sense.

Fish with lesser bones?

2005-05-13T15:49:00.000+08:00

So today I had two very gorgeous patrons for dinner. One of which was at least 174cm tall, looked like a China doll with a hairstyle similar to Moe of 'The 3 Stooges'. I gave them some time to study our menu before waiting on them.

The usuals were ordered. Tom yum goong, crispy fried kang kong, mango kerabu salad and the popular, steamed Lemon fish. "Get me smaller fish. Too big cannot finish. Also find fish with less bone one".

For a moment there, one of my eyebrows rose while looking at her and trying to fathom her request. How on earth does one find a fish with less bone? I smiled as I jotted down China doll's order and went into the kitchen to translate it to my team of chefs. They were on the floor laughing at my order of such a request. I too laughed hard when those words came out from my mouth.

Being in the food business for six years, I'm not entire sure if there's anyone who could tell a fish with lesser bones. Hmm..I'll have to ask my supplier that question.

Got me thinking..

Forza Milan

2005-05-10T16:19:00.000+08:00

I'm happy AC Milan made it to the finals of this season's UEFA Champions League. I admit they rode their luck thru both legs of the semi-finals against a fascinating PSV Eindhoven. The difference between the two sides was one took their chances clinically and the other just couldn't find their finishing touch.
I salute PSV's skipper, Mark Van Bommel for his performance and his never-give-up attitude but I couldn't accept the moaning he gave of playing better in the two legged series and to end up as the losing side. Well, Mark...in football, you don't just play 90 minutes, you play till the final whistle is blown and yes, your courageous and valiant fightback and performance were outstanding but at the end of the day if you let your guard down, you pay for it.

Credit can't be taken away from Milan for their converted chances, and also, ladyluck. It was their luck that PSV forgot their shooting boots in the first leg and lapse in concerntration in the second that allowed Ambrosini to plant a header past Gomes.
Hopefully Milan will take caution of their form when they take on Liverpool on the 25th of May. They just lost to arch-rivals, Juventus over the weekend which puts the latter in pole position to reclaim the scudetto from Milan. At least if they cease the Serie A crown, they will welcome back the Champions League trophy they secured in 2003.

Carlo Ancelotti has done a wonderful job at the San Siro by giving the opportunity to the vastly talented playmaker, Andrea Pirlo to shine. Pirlo had been languishing on the bench at Inter Milan before he was snapped up by Ancelotti and has been the mainstay of the engine room. With the emergence of Kaka, a brilliant talent who has kept Potuguese legend Rui Costa on the bench with scintilating displays has propelled the Serie A giants to familiar territory.
Milan were in doldrums when Fatih Terim took the reigns and was duly dispatched barely completing one season.

With Maldini, Nesta and Stam(when both not injured) marshalling a tight and fearsome defence, the midfield then reinforced with another protective layer in the shape of Gennaro Gattuso, a human pitbull breaking down play and distributing it to attackers with panache. In Clarence Seedorf we have another Dutch legend who has won three champions league medal with three different teams. Kaka is then given the license to roam just in front of the midfield to supply defence splitting passes to the lethal Andrei Shevchenko. The current European Footballer of the Year has been in fine form and it was he who drew first blood against PSV in the first leg of their semi-final clash.

I am however a very big fan of the Rossoneri captain, Paolo Maldini. He is undoubtedly an inspiration and is an icon at the Giuseppe Meazza. At 36 years of age, he is still a classy and competitive professional who is widely regarded as the best full-back of his era. Although not as fast as in his prime, he is still able to time his tackles perfectly and keep a tight leash on the opposite's offense. He reminds me of a typical Spartan soldier back in the Roman period. I hope Milan will win it for Maldini for all he has symbolized at the San Siro. A loyal servant who has spent his entire career at the club right from the youth setup. As a Milan tifosi(fan in Italian), I wish them the very best for this long, weary season with the triumph of the coveted, Champions League 2005.

Snatch

2005-05-07T14:40:00.000+08:00

There was a case of snatch thef today around the restaurant. Apparently the thief had snatched a necklace off a bloke! What a genius. His accomplice fled the scene on a bike and he had to run for his life. A motorist, upon witnessing the incident gave chase in his car and as he neared the culprit, opened the driver's side door causing the robber to fall. The victim gave chase and shouted to the coffee shop just behind the restaurant for help and an entourage of hawkers and patrons stormed out to give this thief a beating he will never forget.

Apparently the daughter in-law of the coffee shop operator had her handbag snatched off her yesterday after having dinner at my restaurant. So her husband must have vented a lot of anger on this luckless thief. They certainly gave him a good beating before letting the authorities haul him away. I would have joined in but there was no room to stick my foot in. There you go, crime doesn't pay.

Shite day but great recovery

2005-04-17T12:41:00.000+08:00

Today will go down as a rather unfortunate day for me. Since Shanne was away on business, I thought I'd be a considerate soul and pump his car with some petrol so it would save his missus the hassle of doing it on the way to work. All was fair just when I was turning off Western Rd, third in line when the first car stopped in the middle of the road! To my horror leaving me exposed to the oncoming traffic!! By the time I realized he'd stopped I crashed right into the second car. I was fuming because there wasn't any reason for him to do so. Then I realized he was from outstation(Kedah number plate, go figure) but still one doesn't stop in the middle of the road regardless of what state or country. What annoyed me was he looked back and saw what he caused and slowly drove off...Grrr!!!

Went down, apologized profusedly to the lady driver who happened to be taking her sick son to the clinic. She understood and pointed the finger at the outstation car in front of her for stopping suddenly. A quick call and her husband came to asses the damage(he being in the auto industry)and we both called our own mechanics about the price. An agreement was struck at RM240 for a broken tail light and he duly followed me to get the amount at a nearby cash dispenser. By this time, I was already running late to the restaurant, and not to mention having to tell dad I'd crashed my brother's car. I could picture his lecture already.
True enough as I was given a tongue lashing firstly for driving his car instead of mine, secondly for following too closely, and third for rushing.

Shanne was way cooler. He called from China when he'd heard about the news.
S:What happened?
J:Car stopped in the middle of the road and I couldn't jam the breaks in time
S:You ok?
J:Yeah
S:I've called the mechanic. He'll pick it up tomorrow in the morning. Don't worry.
J:Sorry...
S:No worries. Drive safe. You owe me one. See you when I get back.
J:Cheers

The damage could have been worst, but thankfully it wasn't. I rushed a bit but like many things in life it was unexpected. I was touched by his gesture. Anybody would after a tongue lashing from pops!! Guess that's pops way of showing his concern (=
From now on, I shall be keeping my distance from outstation cars...especially ones from Kedah!!

Perfect Sunday morning

2005-04-12T17:05:00.000+08:00

The weekend went by without any nightlife activity so I managed to sleep early and got up fresh on a Sunday morning to go hiking. I'm quite pleased with the progress I've been making with a plus for quitting smoking altogether.
I managed to trek the youth park path all the way till number 10. I can't remember when was the last time I've ever been to that point..or maybe its even my first! I've always trekked to number 5 but I'm not sure about 10.

Anyways, I feel great finding a new and healthy lifestyle to live by. Gone are the smoking days, beer guzzling sessions. Jogging, gyming and hiking are to be a new curriculum. Getting fresh air, exercizing the body and mind, seeing nature, pushing oneself. I tagged along with me a camera just in case but I always think to myself as the reward to goin up -The view.
Overlooking the main part of the city, its skyscrapers, the sea and not forgetting the Penang bridge. What a sigh.

I'll always remember what dad taught me. He said if we worked really hard, they'd always be a reward at the end of your task..For me on that beautiful Sunday morning, it was this...

2005-04-12T17:03:00.000+08:00

Penang bridge from afar

2005-04-12T17:02:00.000+08:00

Breathtaking view at no.5

KUALA LUMPUR

2005-04-06T16:21:00.000+08:00

My procrastination has unduely been the reason for absent blogs. So anyways, I was up in KL looking at restaurant prospects last week and realized the capital is spoilt for choice when it comes to eating. Every corner of the city has either a mamak stall/chain, coffee shops, a small scale restaurant, a joo char restaurant, an upscale restaurant, a cafe or some form or another related to satisfying one's hunger.

Seems everybody is so occupied in the rat race that they barely have time to cook! But I guess its always like that in the city. I remember how many times I cooked during my duration in Bangkok..So naturally I was happy when I came home during holidays for a home cooked meal.
Anyhows, prospects seem good altho deciding on a location is a bit of a dilemma right now. Mon Kiara seems a likely prospect eventhough rental is CRAZEE. I mean the going rate on a 400 plus square feet studio apartment is RM160,000 or RM2,000 a pop every month..quite ridiculous, but hey that's where everybody wants to be.

Traffic is just a torture. I even instructed the agent to look into getting an apartment within walking distance or, or a 5-10 minute drive. I was very specific that if you find an available lot for a restaurant, you'll also have to find an available apartment nearby. That's the deal.
One thing I can't stand in KL are the cab drivers. During my trip there, I met only ONE who went by the meter. The rest of them had the cheek to name their price to the mentioned destination. They'd rather just sit in their cars and wait for a sucker to agree to their demands, otherwise they won't budge. Come on, is that how you wanna make a living? Its a tough life mate, but everyone's gotta work hard, put food on the table and not wanting to pull your weight around. I must say, so far I've met chinese cab drivers who are sensible to go by the meters. End of the day, you get business and that's money in your pocket. I guess next time I'll have to remember to get the number of a cab company and give them a call whenever I need to move around, I don't mind being charged extra for using their service, but at least I know I'm not being subjected to extortion!

Oh well, let's see how things go...In a way, I'm bitching but I've yet to taste it firsthand, it might be a good move. But whatever the outcome, I'm definitely ready for a change of environment. Time to step up and live life.

De javu

2005-03-25T16:44:00.001+08:00

Just before heading out to the restaurant, I heard a loud crash at the front of my gate. Pacing myself to see what was happening, I saw an uattended mountain bike right in front and some giggling voices. As I opened the gate I could see 3 young kampung boys looking from the bottom of the street. They had fear in their eyes. I motioned them to come over. Before I could even utter a word, one of the boys apologized. Obviously I had put on a stone cold face. Why shouldn't I? One of the slanting bars on the gate was bent out of its original state.

One of them was rubbing his forehead as an indication he had collided against the gate. I could see tears streaming down his face. So I asked what were they thinking? One of them replied their brakes had failed them. My house is situated on a 45 degree slope and from their story, were actually decending without any brakes whatsoever. So they decided to turn into my gate!
One part of me was furious, I mean knowing their brakes were not in order, why go down the slope? But the other part of my was a bit relieved because had they gone down that slope, they would have no way of stopping and would meet with oncoming traffic like a T-junction. Come to think of it, they could be hit by a car going either way, or crash head-on into my neighbour, Dr.Saw's wall!

I got angry, but it wasn't at my gate anymore. They were just kids, around 15 at most. I then proceeded to tell them they could have been worst off than just a few bruises. They were all looking at the ground while I lectured them, unable to contain their guilt for wrongdoing.
As I dimissed them with a warning to be careful, they all turned and said "Sorry and thank you, uncle". As I walked back into the compound, I couldn't help but laugh lightly at their remark.
I remember not long ago, I was the one courting mischief and having to say thank you and sorry to an elderly for teaching me a lesson.
Feels just like dejavu...

2005-03-22T01:17:00.000+08:00

Today's flava on yesterday's furnicha

retroish

2005-03-21T18:39:00.000+08:00

I was browsing thru the internet and I came across this site retrojunk.com and I was immediately transported back in a time machine to the 80's, a truly memorable period in my life. Cartoons like Denver the Last Dinosaur, Heathcliff, Transformers, ThunderCats, series and sitcoms like Quantum Leap(my all time fav), 21 Jump Street, Who's The Boss, Knight Rider and so on...I was laughing and smiling while seeing footages that were part of my childhood.

'Time waits for no man' - Aah, so true. If I look back during that time, a lot has changed in my life. Can't imagine how mankind has progressed since two decades ago. Back then we didn't have the proper usage of the internet yet. Mobile phones were on analog configuration and they were huge(The bigger the better!). Cars were in manual transmission. Tennis and friends were the only important things in my life. Girls were considered disgusting(hahaha!). My parents were still looking really young..Ok you both still do (;

These days we've managed to step up and push for the best with new technologies and innovations. Look at our built in camera mobile phones equipped with bluetooth and GPRS. Cameras going digital and able to see the outcome of the shot taken 2 seconds ago. Cars with LCD screen maneuvering during parking. State of the art laptops and PDA's. Wooweee, I say we really sprinted ahead and achieved a lot in 20 years.
Today with information just a click away on the internet, we are spoilt with so many choices. Competition is fierce with so many brands trying their utmost to gain market share for their respective fields. So in today's world, only the strongest will survive and while being the champion, one must definitely strive to maintain and/or improve to stay on top on today's ever demanding needs and wants of the human race.

I like all these new gadgetry, artsy fartsy state of the art tech goods but my style really longs for the retro styled toys. Call me different but I like it that way. Well maybe a blend of both worlds. I can still drive my beloved old skool beemer with the company of this year's Pioneer sound system collection. Yup, and I like wearing my shirts and slacks with my Converse All Stars...I see frowns...I'm just a retro boy.

2005-03-17T19:38:00.000+08:00

This Moment Of Happiness

If happiness only lies
In a place we don't exist
And only future days
Are one’s we miss
If satisfaction never comes
And dreams are unattained
Then you sacrificed your happiness
And only you’re to blame
The moment that we’re living
Should be lived with no regret
Don't let reaching for the future
Have you to obsessed
Find happiness
While you have your health
The evidence from pleasing others is
You may not please yourself

Eleven Minutes

2005-03-16T17:04:00.000+08:00

Maria's tale

I now pronounce you...

2005-03-13T21:01:00.000+08:00

Its was an unusually quiet Saturday night as Krish left for his business trip to Indonesia. That left Garrick and I as Bill spent time with the missus and Alan joining the company dinner. Started out slow enough as I was dying to have some beer. We went round to some spots but everywhere seemed crowded. In the end we popped by a pub called The Torch, in Hillside area.

It seemed like a nice pub which never really drew much patrons although its been there quite some time now. Garrick settled for a mocha ice blended while I took in a couple of Coronas'. As we sat chatting by the bar, various topics came up. See we both come from different family backgrounds but we seem to share similar common sense but different points of view. Talking to Garrick will always be like having a debate, well a friendly one because our views are always different but we mostly come up with very contrasting thoughts that make each of us see it from an exterior point of view. Get it? That's probably why I like having a chat with the guy. Its coz we seem to learn from each other and expand on that thought. So now we've got not only one but two solutions to a problem! Two heads are always better than one.

One of our discussions were marriage. We're in our mid 20's and lately, we both have close friends tying the knot. We talked about how not long ago we were just happy hanging out, having a drink, looking at birds..now we're staring at the impending matrimony in about what..5-6 years time? Time flies.
First time I blinked my eye, I was born into the world. Second time I blinked I was crying at kindergarden, refusing to leave my mother's side, third -I was in high school with a lot of mischief under my belt, fourth - my first girlfriend at 18 & also a wonderful kiss...and so the story goes...

Having lived 26 years of my life on earth, its hard to believe by the next blink I'll be staring into the eyes of the woman I truly love and saying 'I do'.
I still feel like a kid, well I'm not really that old, but yet I don't really feel I'm actually in my mid 20's. At this moment, I'm contented to just work hard and play hard for what happens...happens.